Independent

Don't let someone become a priority in your life, when you are just an option in their life.

I am totally agree with this phrase

Don't put any hopes or efforts on someone that don't appreciate one's feeling

You're ended up get nothing

No feedback, no appreciation

In other word, you're just an option for them

Conclusion is,

be independent,

don't trust or rely on others easily,

they can be your friend in this moment but your foe the next seconds.

Trust your own decision and lead your life to the fullest